A traveler happened upon an old man in the street. Anxious to rest his feet, the traveler hailed the old man to talk for a minute.
"What kind of individuals live in here?" asked the outsider.
"Well, what were the people like where you came from?" answered the old man.
"They were awful. Troublemakers actually. The most childish individuals on the planet, and not a one of them to be trusted. That's why I left."
"Is that so?" answered the old man "I'm sorry, but you'll find the same people living here; it's bad!"
Frustrated, the traveler walked away to the next town.
Some time later another traveler reached the old man and asked "What kind of individuals live here?"
"Well, what were the people like where you came from?" answered the old man
"They were the best. Helpful, genuine, and friendly. I'm sorry to leave them actually."
"Fear not," said the old man "You'll find the same people living here; it's great!"
One question for you:
Where do you live?
Do you live in the city, countryside, a suburban home? Is it a warm climate, seasonal, frigid? Do you have a college close by or a sports team you root for? Are there nice roads, parks, arts community, recreational activities? Do you think it has good schools? Do you feel safe? Does it have diversity or more homogeneous?
Seriously, close your eyes and picture it in your mind for a quick minute and really think about all of the benefits and possible negatives it has...
Our events, people we meet, and the life we live is often a product of the people we interact with. We are a product of our own environment!
But, we are not victims of our environment! We greatly influence our own US by our own attitude and outlook.
It boils down to this --- Do you live in Scare City?
Do you live in a mindset of Scare City?
Success and significance leaves clues. They are related, but they are not the same.
Significant people possess certain characteristics. They are driven, display tons of effort, exercises patience and persistence, operates with confidence, seeks new challenges, handles pressure very well, actually welcomes adversity and setbacks, and is an excellent communicator and leader.
Many people have these skills, some have all of them, but few have this last one.
Significant people are NOT selfish! They make others around them better!
They care more about the team and the others around them than themselves.
Not true, right? You know wealthy people who are very selfish, self-seeking, self-centered and it's all about them!
Agreed, you can achieve success by being selfish. BUT, it's IMPOSSIBLE to achieve significance!
Do you want success or significance in your performance?
Living in Scare City myself for all these years is why this is launching...
In this age of competition, we’ve become more and more selfish and self-seeking, trying to get our own piece of the pie.
Society has forced us to care more about ourselves than others.
That’s why many of us aren’t as significant as we want to be.
It makes sense, because we've lived in Scare City our entire life.
Living in Scare City is why we are poor.
For some of us, maybe that poor is financial. For others, it might be relational. It might be in poor physical condition or emotional hurt. Poor sleep, poor diet, poor condition.
But, we are poor.
Living in Scare City takes a major wake-up call unfortunately.
The scariest part-
We might not even know we live there!!
Imagine if our workplace or team lives in Scare City as well?
My business used to live there and then I made an investment in myself and moved out.
Finally, a step-by-step strategy that will completely change the way you live!
There's a way to build your mental toughness and reach that next level. I guarantee it!
My name is Dr. Rob Bell.
Watch the story that inspired the Book!
Yes, life is a competition.
Just because life is a brutal competition, it still does not mean that we ALL can't be successful.
The way out of the Scare City is to enhance our own beliefs and adopt and take ownership of the Abun Dance.
That’s why, NO ONE Gets There ALONE was created.
The Abun Dance is the simple, but not easy belief system that there is enough.
It shouts that we all CAN be successful and just because that person gets their piece of the pie, does not mean we can’t get ours as well.
The Abun Dance shifts our focus to a life of significance not just success.
Everyone of us is designed to do the abun dance — The connection with others. Helping each other. We need others…
The Abun Dance is meant to be with others!!
A special transformation occurs when we focus on others while also improving yourself. If we can help enough people reach their goals, then we will reach ours.
How will this challenge help me in 30 days?
This isn't a mental toughness hack. This is not a try this and that sort of thing. You can’t buy mental toughness on an app. Sure, you can listen to podcasts, read articles, watch youtube videos for all of that. That stuff will only help for so long.
You need more.
You need accountability and direction from an expert who has been where you are trying to go. Someone to challenge and support you every step along the way. This 30 day challenge is designed to focus on creating a better YOU and a better US. See, there’s a huge gap in all this self-help stuff. It only focuses on creating a better YOU. It only focuses on success. It doesn’t focus on becoming a person of significance. Shhh. But, there’s a secret to Building Mental Toughness.
The secret is that you cannot build mental toughness without focusing on others. I actually hate the secret of mental toughness, because when I lose confidence, the last thing in the world I want to do is help others. When I have a problem, I need to focus on myself to fix it correct? Wrong! That’s the Scare City way. What I finally learned and am going to share is this;
If I wanted to be confident, I had to help others get confident.
If I wanted to be a better dad, then I needed to coach others.
If I wanted to be patient, then teaching patience ensured that it'll happen.
Your success depends on others!
Helping others get to where they want to go is how we get to where we want to go. When you perform the abun dance, you’ll focus on others and in doing so that’s how you’ll help yourself!
How will mental toughness help my performance and bottom line?
Mental toughness is cool. But it needs to help when it matters the most. That’s why we’ve built an entire 30 day challenge on building mental toughness.
It’s how we handle setbacks and adversity.
I gave over 24 keynotes last year. I’ve spoken this year at a conference for 10k, and then, I get a notice from a local event saying ‘I’m not good enough.” what?! Ouch. Pain. Rejection. Defeat. Mental Toughness = What do you do when you’re rejected? How do you handle the pain of not getting what you want?
The way you do anything is the way you do everything…
This is not a quick fix! This is a solution...
NO ONE Gets There ALONE focuses on making a Better YOU and a Better US. Everyday you’ll receive a challenge to complete and you’ll transform yourself in 30 days. You’ll move into abundance and become of significance.
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Here's what you get...
Mental Toughness = What do you do when you’re rejected? How do you handle the pain of not getting what you want?
Learn how to Properly deal with Rejection and Build your Mental Toughness over the course of my 30 Day Challenge
3 weekly webinars over the month to answer your precise questions
You’ll get to create and send text messages to those five people most important to you in the next 30 days.
Focusing on others takes work. This simple app removes that work, so you’ll be able to remain in contact with these five people and encourage, motivate, and build up their own grit.
My 30 day Mental Toughness Challenge comes with a 7-day refund policy. If you do the work and you don't see an improvement in your relationships, or happiness, then I'll refund your investment. So, if you’re on the fence, buy it and get to work. If the strategies don’t work for you, I’ll make you get a refund.
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Let’s face it, it might not be for you. And that’s totally cool. If it’s a fear thing, you can overcome that personal objection. There will be daily challenges and times of uncomfortability. You’ll get to focus on the five crucial relationships and this takes effort. It’s okay if you have the lone wolf mentality - the belief that you do not need anyone else. BUT, if you do not want to move out of SCARE CITY, then it’s probably not for you.
The 30 Day Challenge might not be for you if...
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30 Days to Mental Toughness
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